This is a pretty big step, Its different to let go of someone that you've gotten use to. It's usually easier to end relationships slowly instead of just jumping out of a relationship impulsively. Make sure you are ending a bad relationship and not a good one. Sometiomes it's best to try to work things out a few times before completely ending a relationship just because you are not willing to listen Or give the other person a second Or third chance. If nothing else work it's best to end a relationship and don't just use the other person as a friend you keep as an emergency pal. When ending a relationships make sure you let the other person express himself Or herself. Sometimes people just stay with each other because there's nothing else to do. If you want to do that it's perfectly okay but make sure you are a good partner. Make sure to give your partner a warning and a period to slowly get use to living without you to make sure obsessions don't develop and be honest. Don't play with peoples feelings by ending and then restarting the relationship just because you feel lonely. People are not toys. If you eventually change your mind and want to return to your partner make sure to be completely honest but if you are sure make sure to never sway from your decision to end the relationship. 'Principles Guaranteed to Mess up Any Good Relationship'~~ 1) Indulge your selfishness- There are few guarantees in life. But if you're looking for a guaranteed way to wreck your marriage, Never forget the cardinal rule: Marriage is all about your own personal happiness!!! 2) Justity unfaithfulness- The next big step towards marital disaster can be summed up in the phrase, "What they don't know won't hurt them". 3) Expect it to be easy- You don't have to go looking for storms in your marriage; they will come to you. There are forces intent on destroying your relationship; so if you want it to go down in flames, you just need to stay out of their way and let them do their work. Allow yourself to be blindsided by life's difficulties. 4) Pursue the quick fix- Building a good marriage takes time and effort. But for some reason, many people think they shouldn't have to work on their relationship; it should just come easy.


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