Relationship Advice--5 Reasons Why Your Partner May Be Clingy.~~1

Is your partner clingy? Is your partner so attached at the hip that you don't know where your body ends and where your partner's body begins? Do you wish you had just a little room to breath? As much as you would like to ignore your partner's behavior in hopes that it would just go away, the reality is that it may be worth it to explore what is going on not just with your partner but with yourself is well. Everyone does things for a reason, and every relationship is a dynamic creation of two people, so by exploring what's going on with the both of you, not only may you be able to see the problem, but the solution within the problem to your partner's need to cling. So the following are 5 possible reasons for why your partner is clingy in your relationship. 1) Your Partner May Not Be Feeling Safe And Secure: If you observe children, if they are clinging to their parents, it is usually an indication that they do not feel safe and secure, they are afraid that their parents are going to leave them Or that their parents are not going to be available. Now, I'm not saying your partner is acting like a child, I'm saying they may be feeling that same sense of not being safe and secure as they did with their parents. So why would they be feeling that way with you? Sure you can blame it on past baggage, but let's first examine the relationship dynamics between you and your partner. If you are never around and you say that you don't want to be around your partner that may be enough for your partner to want to cling to you, however there is an even better chance that your partner may not feel an emotional connection, which can also trigger a person into being clingy. So if you were honest with yourself, you are emotionally shutdown? Have people said you are emotionally shutdown in the past? If you are emotionally shutdown, take steps to becoming more emotionally open, whether that is learning ways to heal emotions and experiences of the past that caused you to put up a wall, Or learn how to open and express your emotions if you just have never been exposed Or learned how to do so. Even if your partner does have their own emotional baggage, if you become open, not only are you a role model to your partner, your partner may just naturally become less clingy as you become more emotionally open. ...............to be continued