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Friend---do you attract "unavailable" men?~~(Part 5)
That means you have to be in the right frame of mind, and state in your heart BEFORE you start the conversation with him..... But most women aren't in the right frame of mind because they're afraid, and they've "tricked" themselves into thinking that their intimate feelings for a man will scare him off. WRONG It's not honesty that will scare him off, it's the negative, fearful and anxious "vibe" that you unknowingly give off before 
you finally EXPLODE because you can no longer hide how you feel from the man you're with. That's what scares some men off and makes them clam up. The amazing thing is that men crave HONEST women who are up front about who they are and what they want in relationships. The key is to know the RIGHT WAY to communicate these things without going over the top. Remember, if you communicate with a man in a way that assumes, begs, convinces, Or makes him think that you're "entitled" to a relationship and a commitment with him, he will NEVER, EVER respect you and want to stay for the long-term. You might get what you want in the short-term if he gives in to your wishes just to avoid a conflict, but trust me, you are headed for MUCH bigger problems in the future. Or worse, you'll get what you want NOW, but he's spent the past months--Or, god forbid, YEARS--secretly SEETHING WITH RESENTMENT TO YOU. You just can't "talk" a man into wanting to commit to you by listing all the ways your relationship is special. This is something VERY IMPORTANT to remember when it comes to men and relationships. ****You have to give a man the right "REASONS" for him to want to and make HIMSELF committed.***** Becoming deeply committed doesn't often just happen with the passing of time for a man. He won't want to commit "just because it's been six months Or a year (Or longer). How won't commit to you because you explain how you think you're better than all the women he's dated Or because you have such a great "connection". Nope, he's going to commit for his own reasons. So what are these "reasons"? They're very complex if you don't understand them.....but simple at the same time. A man's reasons for committing, Or not committing, are his FEELINGS and EMOTIONS. Sounds simple, but it's profound and true. The "masculine" part of a man has to FEEL like he is naturally and of his own free will CHOOSING to be with a woman. If this happens, his commitment will be usually be strong and lasting. But if a man commits because a woman has been talking to him and analyzing things to show him how a relationship really makes "sense", then a man's commitment won't be strong.....and it probably won't last. See the difference? A man's motivations for commitment are how a woman makes him FEEL when he's with her. If you want him to respond and have committed feelings for you, then you need to do more of the things that will make him FEEL the FEELINGS of desire, interest and attraction that lead him to want to commit. Still with me here? Good. In other words, WORDS and conversations are the LEAST powerful and effective tools that a woman has when it comes to 'love' and relationships. The FEELINGS of ATTRACTION that she can create, sometimes without even speaking, are the MOST POWERFUL. If you want to learn more about what works to attract a man to you so that he absolutely can't resist wanting to be around you, and everything else but his desire to be with you falls away....... In this program I reveal specific ways to subtly communicate to a man the things that will "trigger" that intense level of attraction inside him. You can literally have a man who wasn't totally "feeling it" for you suddenly take notice and see and recognize the things inside you he simply didn't look for Or see before. And this is a great first step that you can quickly build on as a man starts to see you as the one woman he wants as his one and only partner. Don't wait for this all to happen on it's own, when you know what you want. Try it now and turn up the dial on the level of ATTRACTION a man feels and experiences with you on both a Physical and Emotional Level. You'll be glad you did. Now, I was only able to give a few simple tips and insights on how to better connect with a man in a way that will lead you both closer together and help him not only talk, but FEEL committed. To learn exactly how to make a man FEEL , through experience, that he's BETTER OFF being with you than being single. Like all my programs, you can try it out for 30 days before you have to pay a penny, to make sure it's absolutely right for you and your situation. In my "From Casual to Committed" program I'll help you discover how to help a man get in touch with those hidden feelings inside him that will have him BEGGING you for a commitment. No drama, no tears, and no convincing that he needs to "go there" with you. I'll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in Life and Love. Christian Carter--- P.S. As I mentioned in this newsletter, there is a very powerful force that makes a man want to commit to YOU and ONLY YOU. and that is the natural and unmistakable force of lasting. ATTRACTION. I'm definitely not just talking about the "physical" Kind of attraction, which is definitely powerful in itself, but doesn't in itself make a relationship LAST and THRIVE. The kind of attraction I'm talking about is DEEPER and is EMOTIONAL. It's about the things you do, the things you say, the way you carry yourself that make a man go nuts with his desire to be around you.
That means you have to be in the right frame of mind, and state in your heart BEFORE you start the conversation with him..... But most women aren't in the right frame of mind because they're afraid, and they've "tricked" themselves into thinking that their intimate feelings for a man will scare him off. WRONG It's not honesty that will scare him off, it's the negative, fearful and anxious "vibe" that you unknowingly give off before 
you finally EXPLODE because you can no longer hide how you feel from the man you're with. That's what scares some men off and makes them clam up. The amazing thing is that men crave HONEST women who are up front about who they are and what they want in relationships. The key is to know the RIGHT WAY to communicate these things without going over the top. Remember, if you communicate with a man in a way that assumes, begs, convinces, Or makes him think that you're "entitled" to a relationship and a commitment with him, he will NEVER, EVER respect you and want to stay for the long-term. You might get what you want in the short-term if he gives in to your wishes just to avoid a conflict, but trust me, you are headed for MUCH bigger problems in the future. Or worse, you'll get what you want NOW, but he's spent the past months--Or, god forbid, YEARS--secretly SEETHING WITH RESENTMENT TO YOU. You just can't "talk" a man into wanting to commit to you by listing all the ways your relationship is special. This is something VERY IMPORTANT to remember when it comes to men and relationships. ****You have to give a man the right "REASONS" for him to want to and make HIMSELF committed.***** Becoming deeply committed doesn't often just happen with the passing of time for a man. He won't want to commit "just because it's been six months Or a year (Or longer). How won't commit to you because you explain how you think you're better than all the women he's dated Or because you have such a great "connection". Nope, he's going to commit for his own reasons. So what are these "reasons"? They're very complex if you don't understand them.....but simple at the same time. A man's reasons for committing, Or not committing, are his FEELINGS and EMOTIONS. Sounds simple, but it's profound and true. The "masculine" part of a man has to FEEL like he is naturally and of his own free will CHOOSING to be with a woman. If this happens, his commitment will be usually be strong and lasting. But if a man commits because a woman has been talking to him and analyzing things to show him how a relationship really makes "sense", then a man's commitment won't be strong.....and it probably won't last. See the difference? A man's motivations for commitment are how a woman makes him FEEL when he's with her. If you want him to respond and have committed feelings for you, then you need to do more of the things that will make him FEEL the FEELINGS of desire, interest and attraction that lead him to want to commit. Still with me here? Good. In other words, WORDS and conversations are the LEAST powerful and effective tools that a woman has when it comes to 'love' and relationships. The FEELINGS of ATTRACTION that she can create, sometimes without even speaking, are the MOST POWERFUL. If you want to learn more about what works to attract a man to you so that he absolutely can't resist wanting to be around you, and everything else but his desire to be with you falls away....... In this program I reveal specific ways to subtly communicate to a man the things that will "trigger" that intense level of attraction inside him. You can literally have a man who wasn't totally "feeling it" for you suddenly take notice and see and recognize the things inside you he simply didn't look for Or see before. And this is a great first step that you can quickly build on as a man starts to see you as the one woman he wants as his one and only partner. Don't wait for this all to happen on it's own, when you know what you want. Try it now and turn up the dial on the level of ATTRACTION a man feels and experiences with you on both a Physical and Emotional Level. You'll be glad you did. Now, I was only able to give a few simple tips and insights on how to better connect with a man in a way that will lead you both closer together and help him not only talk, but FEEL committed. To learn exactly how to make a man FEEL , through experience, that he's BETTER OFF being with you than being single. Like all my programs, you can try it out for 30 days before you have to pay a penny, to make sure it's absolutely right for you and your situation. In my "From Casual to Committed" program I'll help you discover how to help a man get in touch with those hidden feelings inside him that will have him BEGGING you for a commitment. No drama, no tears, and no convincing that he needs to "go there" with you. I'll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in Life and Love. Christian Carter--- P.S. As I mentioned in this newsletter, there is a very powerful force that makes a man want to commit to YOU and ONLY YOU. and that is the natural and unmistakable force of lasting. ATTRACTION. I'm definitely not just talking about the "physical" Kind of attraction, which is definitely powerful in itself, but doesn't in itself make a relationship LAST and THRIVE. The kind of attraction I'm talking about is DEEPER and is EMOTIONAL. It's about the things you do, the things you say, the way you carry yourself that make a man go nuts with his desire to be around you.
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