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Long read on relationship but VERY good!!!~~3
1) Be the leader, Let her follow~~~ This holds especially true in this day an age, women have rights (nowadays) and have the ability to choose who she wants to be with very easily, while men on the other hand are literally horn-dogs looking for a new companion with little to no luck (relatively speaking about men in general). The fact is, Many Men want to be with the attractive woman, thus giving the woman the ability to choose their male. Women choose carefully and have the upper hand in the choice of male because they subconsciously are looking for someone with the traits as the head of the family, they also want Someone who is healthy and able to protect her and the children. In over-generalized terms, most women can go out tonight and have sex, if they wanted to, while men on the other hand generally cannot. Think about it. If a decent to good looking girl came up to you and said she wanted to have sex with you, How many guys deny it??? A small minority maybe, but the majority will follow through Flip the Tables, if a decent/good looking guy came up to a girl and asked her to have sex, he'd receive on the face and doesn't end up getting any (unless the girl is extremely unattractive and wanted some desperately, which in itself is a minority case as well). What does this all have to do with men being leaders, you might ask? Women this day an age have the ability to choose their mate far more than men have. When you let the woman be the leader in the relationship, this empowers her to look for someone better because she's not totally satisfied in the relationship and because she has many options. She's not attracted to someone who does everything she wants, she wants someone who can lead the family and take care of everyone important to her, Not someone catering to her (as much as women say they want to be catered to). My advice to men on this point is to be the leader, set the plans, and be your own individual while being in a relationship. Keep your girl on her toes, demonstrate that you have high value by doing things that are important to you, be fun, and don't smother her. If this leader/follower balance is disrupted, the relationship is usually not successful. ..................to be continued
1) Be the leader, Let her follow~~~ This holds especially true in this day an age, women have rights (nowadays) and have the ability to choose who she wants to be with very easily, while men on the other hand are literally horn-dogs looking for a new companion with little to no luck (relatively speaking about men in general). The fact is, Many Men want to be with the attractive woman, thus giving the woman the ability to choose their male. Women choose carefully and have the upper hand in the choice of male because they subconsciously are looking for someone with the traits as the head of the family, they also want Someone who is healthy and able to protect her and the children. In over-generalized terms, most women can go out tonight and have sex, if they wanted to, while men on the other hand generally cannot. Think about it. If a decent to good looking girl came up to you and said she wanted to have sex with you, How many guys deny it??? A small minority maybe, but the majority will follow through Flip the Tables, if a decent/good looking guy came up to a girl and asked her to have sex, he'd receive on the face and doesn't end up getting any (unless the girl is extremely unattractive and wanted some desperately, which in itself is a minority case as well). What does this all have to do with men being leaders, you might ask? Women this day an age have the ability to choose their mate far more than men have. When you let the woman be the leader in the relationship, this empowers her to look for someone better because she's not totally satisfied in the relationship and because she has many options. She's not attracted to someone who does everything she wants, she wants someone who can lead the family and take care of everyone important to her, Not someone catering to her (as much as women say they want to be catered to). My advice to men on this point is to be the leader, set the plans, and be your own individual while being in a relationship. Keep your girl on her toes, demonstrate that you have high value by doing things that are important to you, be fun, and don't smother her. If this leader/follower balance is disrupted, the relationship is usually not successful. ..................to be continued
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