Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Still Attracting "Unavaible" Men?~~(Part 1)

This guy is a great salesman. Some of what he says sounds true, though. "Just remember: he is trying to sell his book". Friend--do you attract "unavailable" men? In this email I'm going to teach about how men think about 'love' and relationships ...... And how lots of women both CHOOSE the wrong men..,.... and bring out the "bad qualities" in the right men that get in the way of the 'love' and the great relationship that's possible. Quick Tip: Just because you've been happily dating a man for several weeks, months Or even years..... it doesn't automatically mean a man is thinking Or feeling "commitment", Or seeking a deeper lasting expression of his LOVE. If you're like most women, they by experience you already know this to be true. And it scares you. You can spend time with a man, get close, become intimate and bond.... and he can still NOT WANT to enter into a relationship with you. So why are so many men "unavailable"? The short answer is because men have a different RELATIONSHIP TIMELINE for wanting to get "serious" with a woman........ and a different way of seeing how 'love' and an exclusive committed relationship comes together. But what can you do with this? The first thing you should know is...... a man's "Commitment Tempo" (When he'll want to take things to the next level with you) has NOTHING to do with how long you've been together. Don't get yourself hung up on this like lots of other women who try and "convince" a man it's time because how ever many months have already passed and he SHOULD BE ready. Talking this way to a man is a great way to shoot yourself in the foot and encourage him to pull away. What matters, and what works, is addressing where you and a man are in terms of your EMOTIONAL CONNECTION...... instead of worrying and talking about TIME. If you've ever been with a man and shared something amazing for several months and grown closer and closer, but then he RESISTED and WITHDREW once you actually talked about how things were moving forward between you....... then you know exactly what I'm talking about. Here's the secret: A man doesn't commit to a woman in a conversation, Or even with his words. It's something he just FEELS inside and wants for himself. Do you know what creates this DESIRE and FEELING inside a man? Before you waste any more of your time waiting for a man to "get his act together", Or trying the hopeless approach of working to "convince" a man that your relationship is special and worth taking to the NEXT LEVEL...... read this special letter I put together about the reasons WHY a man will WANT AND CHOOSE to be with you, and only you. So friend--let's get down to what's really going on inside your heart when it comes to men and relationships. ...........to be continued.

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red crow said...

You seem very practical, and I am looking forward to the next installation. Your advice is sound for either sex.
CIAO- RC