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Long read on relationship but VERY good!!!~1
Heterosexuality is based on the exchange of female power for male power expressed as love. A woman expresses her femininity and love when she accepts her husband's leadership. She empowers him. Over the years, I've been making observations and theories in social dynamics because I tend to have an outside view on things. I have no doubt that people will disagree, and in some cases flame me with what I'm about to say. I'm putting it up here for constructive feedback and experiences you can relate to what I'm talking about. Old Ideas Revisited~~~ Many times I see several boyfriend/girlfriend problems posted in this forum and the simple solution seems to relate back to the very basics that people tend to forget about in relationships. Genetically, we are not very different from our ancestors hundreds Or even thousands of years ago. Men were the hunters and leaders of the family, and the women were supporters and in a way assistance to do most of the time, and the women would follow. If you fast forward time and look at today's age, there is a great deal of progression for independence and being an individual in society, depending on yourself for your own success. This has caused women to break out of their "following" role and become a self-starter Or leader themselves in order to survive ( which isn't necessarily a bad thing). One problem: relationship-wise we still follow our ancient subconscious thoughts and motives. You may have several reasons for getting into a relationship, maybe you just want to have sex with someone all day, maybe you want the companionship, maybe you want a significant other, whatever it may be, we were designed to pursue these endeavors for a reason. We are thinking about reproducing and creating a family to support each other and grow on to produce another generation of our kind. When you get into a relationship that you want to turn out successful, you must follow the ancient ways in which we were programmed. Now hold on before someone calls me a sexist bastard, I'm not talking about a man in a wife beater yelling for his wife to do the dishes and make him a sandwich, I'm talking about social roles. ........................................to be continued
Heterosexuality is based on the exchange of female power for male power expressed as love. A woman expresses her femininity and love when she accepts her husband's leadership. She empowers him. Over the years, I've been making observations and theories in social dynamics because I tend to have an outside view on things. I have no doubt that people will disagree, and in some cases flame me with what I'm about to say. I'm putting it up here for constructive feedback and experiences you can relate to what I'm talking about. Old Ideas Revisited~~~ Many times I see several boyfriend/girlfriend problems posted in this forum and the simple solution seems to relate back to the very basics that people tend to forget about in relationships. Genetically, we are not very different from our ancestors hundreds Or even thousands of years ago. Men were the hunters and leaders of the family, and the women were supporters and in a way assistance to do most of the time, and the women would follow. If you fast forward time and look at today's age, there is a great deal of progression for independence and being an individual in society, depending on yourself for your own success. This has caused women to break out of their "following" role and become a self-starter Or leader themselves in order to survive ( which isn't necessarily a bad thing). One problem: relationship-wise we still follow our ancient subconscious thoughts and motives. You may have several reasons for getting into a relationship, maybe you just want to have sex with someone all day, maybe you want the companionship, maybe you want a significant other, whatever it may be, we were designed to pursue these endeavors for a reason. We are thinking about reproducing and creating a family to support each other and grow on to produce another generation of our kind. When you get into a relationship that you want to turn out successful, you must follow the ancient ways in which we were programmed. Now hold on before someone calls me a sexist bastard, I'm not talking about a man in a wife beater yelling for his wife to do the dishes and make him a sandwich, I'm talking about social roles. ........................................to be continued
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