Friday, March 28, 2008

Long read on relationship but VERY good!!!~~6

The Big Picture and Total Concept~~~ The Key to a long lasting and fulfilling relationship is your ability to display alpha male qualities, every point above is a reference to one. Alpha male qualities make your relationship stay healthy and in balance. Have you ever noticed how women are attracted to alpha males? The quarterback of the football team--leader of men, ambitious, protects his own, is confident, knows his own principles, in shape and healthy, high social status, etc. etc. When would the quarterback bend over backwards and get on his knees to keep a girl? Never. He has options because he has so much to fall back on, not to mention other girls are attracted to him already. How about that very popular guy you know who seems to know and get along with everyone and goes out every night? His social status is high; he believes in respect, protects his friends, leader of the pack, he's confident, more than likely well groomed and in good shape. When does he bend over backwards for a girl!? Never as well. He goes out every night, knows a lot of people, and has qualities many women find attractive. Women like to be led and be taught, they look for the leaders and teachers. They want protection and someone who stands up for the family. If you can't meet these subconscious needs, she'd prefer to go out and find another male. In essence, I find men treating their women in the relationship with too much courtesy, love, compliments, control, and a transfer of leadership because they want to do anything to keep her there. Fact is, "if you make her the prize, she has every reason to leave you". If you are the prize, she has every reason to be with you to attain it. Don't bend over backwards for a girl in your relationship, it's not worth it. You don't enjoy it and she'll end up leaving you, it's a double negative. You be yourself, keep your ambitions, you be the leader, she will follow, you will be happy for being yourself, she will be happy to be with someone interesting and capable of being her mate, it's a double positive. Women ultimately seek the alpha male because they are the best mates. If you show her that you have qualities of an alpha male, she is more inclined to be with you and you'll both be happy. Alpha males don't bend over backwards Or become someone's bitch (don't take that statement too literally). Alpha males are on top of their game; they lead people, have high social status, and watch out for number one while taking care of everyone else. When women see the alpha male, they see a prize to be had. On the other hand, when men see women as a prize, the woman has you in the palm of her hands............ you turn her off because you are nothing like an alpha male, you are nothing like what she wants because you make her the prize, don't do this. You just bent over backwards for her in hopes of keeping her and she's going to leave you because of it. Don't fall into this. The harder you try to keep her around the more inclined she is to leave. Remember, alpha males are willing to walk away because they have a lot more going for them than to try and fix a bad relationship. WWAMD? What would an alpha male do?


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