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Long read on relationship but VERY good!!!~~5
5) Moderate the situations~~~ Again, this is another leadership quality, Don't let her hold you on the phone for 3 hours talking about her girl problems. Don't let her convince you of doing something against your own beliefs. If you were in an important lecture class and she calls you, don't leave to go answer your phone. Set some ground rules for yourself. If your friend called you during your important lecture class, would you drop the lecture to answer? No. So why would you do this for your partner, knowing the conversation may have not been as important as the lecture, Or knowing that it could wait until after? There is a way to be flexible and understanding but don't fall under control. Be available to help her out, but don't be available all the time even when you shouldn't be. You have a life you're working on too!!!!! Don't forget about number one. 5) Don't forget to input into the relationship~~~ Many men might get carried away with the idea of being an alpha male (which these qualities are a part of) is far above the aspects involved in relationships. Remember, a relationship is mutual, if she is constantly seeking your "approval" Or looks up to you as a partner and you don't reward her for her behavior, she will leave because it appears you are uninterested Or unappreciative. Don't get too wrapped up in being in control. If she dresses up really nice for you, give her a compliment, if she does something nice for you, make sure you treat her for it. It becomes a process of the more she invests, the more she receives. Women like compliments and they like to be flattered, if they don't earn it don't give it to them. If you compliment Or flatter them when unnecessary, they begin to see themselves as the prize, not you. You want to be the prize so they can stay with you. Reward them for good behavior and they will want to stay with you to get your affection. {All in all, I may be adding to this list in time. The basic underlying principle is that becoming more of an alpha male results in more attractive qualities that females see in you. Everyone is capable of being an alpha male, start working at it.} .......................................to be continued
5) Moderate the situations~~~ Again, this is another leadership quality, Don't let her hold you on the phone for 3 hours talking about her girl problems. Don't let her convince you of doing something against your own beliefs. If you were in an important lecture class and she calls you, don't leave to go answer your phone. Set some ground rules for yourself. If your friend called you during your important lecture class, would you drop the lecture to answer? No. So why would you do this for your partner, knowing the conversation may have not been as important as the lecture, Or knowing that it could wait until after? There is a way to be flexible and understanding but don't fall under control. Be available to help her out, but don't be available all the time even when you shouldn't be. You have a life you're working on too!!!!! Don't forget about number one. 5) Don't forget to input into the relationship~~~ Many men might get carried away with the idea of being an alpha male (which these qualities are a part of) is far above the aspects involved in relationships. Remember, a relationship is mutual, if she is constantly seeking your "approval" Or looks up to you as a partner and you don't reward her for her behavior, she will leave because it appears you are uninterested Or unappreciative. Don't get too wrapped up in being in control. If she dresses up really nice for you, give her a compliment, if she does something nice for you, make sure you treat her for it. It becomes a process of the more she invests, the more she receives. Women like compliments and they like to be flattered, if they don't earn it don't give it to them. If you compliment Or flatter them when unnecessary, they begin to see themselves as the prize, not you. You want to be the prize so they can stay with you. Reward them for good behavior and they will want to stay with you to get your affection. {All in all, I may be adding to this list in time. The basic underlying principle is that becoming more of an alpha male results in more attractive qualities that females see in you. Everyone is capable of being an alpha male, start working at it.} .......................................to be continued
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