Long read on relationship but VERY good!!!!~~4

2) Be a step ahead~~~ Women love to look up to their man, not only for leadership but in attempt to be able to learn and attempt to have control over him--don't let this happen, if she controls you, she assumes leadership, when she assumes leadership, the balance is disrupted and the relationship will be unfulfilling and she will probably leave. Don't take this too literally, I'm not saying women are control freaks and are out to make you slaves, they're really just testing you and they do it subconsciously without actually thinking that they are testing you. If you can defend your stance and not become totally controlled, it shows that you have higher value because you believe in your own principles; it is seen as a quality women find in men. This step again involves the practice of executing leadership. In other words, if you are a boring guy and can't ever think of what to do, she will begin to get a control over you because it turns to be a privilege to be with her. She knows more interesting things to do and places to go, she also knows that you don't have much to teach her Or take her to, in essence you begin to follow her, and once again the leader/follower balance is disrupted. You must be more socially known and knowledgeable than she is. Have a large circle of friends and acquaintances. Know the hotspots for entertainment, fun, and interesting things to do. Have connections and get to know and do more things that promote your higher value in the relationship. If she sees that you are an interesting person and have more knowledge and good social rapport, she will want to be with you to partake in what you do. If not, what does she have being with a boring guy? She can easily walk off and get a new one. 3) Stay up to par~~~ Never get too comfortable a relationship. Look sharp (don't slack off on appearance), be social, and never ignore anything for your relationship. Don't ignore your close friends, don't cancel plans significant to you to be with her, and don't burn your bridges because you're in a relationship. You want to portray the ability that you are able to find another partner should things go bad, this makes your partner want to be with you more, because you've got something in your that facilitates getting another girl, and will be attracted to keeping you. If she knows you are capable of getting another female companion, she wants to keep you for herself because there's obviously something special about you that women want, she's going to want to hold tight on to that. In turn, she will stay up to par and attempt to impress you to keep you around. You stay attractive; She'll be attractive for you. Ever notice how if you walk into a club, bar, Or social area with some females, whether they be friends, family, Or whatever, other women instantly look at you. Why? You've got something apparently that keeps those females there. Same concept here, if you are attractive to other females as well, she will want to hold on to you. Stay sharp and attractive and in turn, your partner will want to be with you. ................to be continued