skip to main |
skip to sidebar
How to be a good girlfriend?~~Part 2
11)Remember to always be there when he needs a hug, Or a kiss. Body contact is very important, and always warms up a relationship. But if he wants to do things you don't you absolutely have to tell him. If he cares about you, he will respect this!!!
*Tip:Remember, it's better to give than to receive. The major religions got this right, and for a good reason: mysteriously, you gain more in the long run by giving than by getting. While love isn't all you need, its the most important thing. *Keep in mind: the road will be difficult and he won't ask directions. As in any healthy relationship, you will have your share of conflicts, some tiny, some big. Remember to be true to yourself, and try to abandon any significant selfishness. A relationship is a matter of team work and a symbiotic relationship, not a parasitic one where a party gives and the other one just takes without giving enough back. *Don't stop spending time with your girlfriends, they are necessary as to provide shoulders to cry on when you feel like your relationship is slipping away. If you and the boyfriend break up, they will still be there to say "We're here for you", so don't neglect them. Plus, Spending some time apart will make him that much more glad to see you when you Do get together. *Dress sexy once in a while. Don't do this too often but surprise him now and then with a hot outfit, which you buy with your own money. Nothing pumps a man's ego more than knowing that he's got a pretty girl by his side. *If your boyfriend is acting Passive towards you when starting a new relationship (like not buying you stuff Or not saying sweet things to you Or not kissing you) it doesn't necissarily mean he doesn't love you.It most likeley means he is shy and has never been in a relationship before and just doesn't know how to act. To solve this problem you can talk to him about asking that way, perhaps he's expecting you to take more initiative because you have had more experience with relationships than him. *Avoid having a "one track" relationship in which the bond revolves around one thing. Keep your relationship strong by bringing variety and diversity into the relationship. Try different and new things together. Relationship are about having fun together, learning together and growing together. Warnings: Don't conduct "secret tests" on your boyfriend to see what he'll do. It's humiliating, disrespectful and unfair, and you don't want him to do that to you. It's fine to share things with your girlfriends when talking about him, but remember to be respectful of him by not sharing things that are embarrassing, confidential Or rude. You can keep your girlfriends "updated" on stuff, but keep them from getting involved in your relationship (unless abuse Or other dangerous activities are taking place, which are never your fault), in which case tell them everything. *Don't dress sexy all the time. Especially on the first few dates. it comes off as trashy and slutty, and people will think you're a right slag. ....to be continued 
*Tip:Remember, it's better to give than to receive. The major religions got this right, and for a good reason: mysteriously, you gain more in the long run by giving than by getting. While love isn't all you need, its the most important thing. *Keep in mind: the road will be difficult and he won't ask directions. As in any healthy relationship, you will have your share of conflicts, some tiny, some big. Remember to be true to yourself, and try to abandon any significant selfishness. A relationship is a matter of team work and a symbiotic relationship, not a parasitic one where a party gives and the other one just takes without giving enough back. *Don't stop spending time with your girlfriends, they are necessary as to provide shoulders to cry on when you feel like your relationship is slipping away. If you and the boyfriend break up, they will still be there to say "We're here for you", so don't neglect them. Plus, Spending some time apart will make him that much more glad to see you when you Do get together. *Dress sexy once in a while. Don't do this too often but surprise him now and then with a hot outfit, which you buy with your own money. Nothing pumps a man's ego more than knowing that he's got a pretty girl by his side. *If your boyfriend is acting Passive towards you when starting a new relationship (like not buying you stuff Or not saying sweet things to you Or not kissing you) it doesn't necissarily mean he doesn't love you.It most likeley means he is shy and has never been in a relationship before and just doesn't know how to act. To solve this problem you can talk to him about asking that way, perhaps he's expecting you to take more initiative because you have had more experience with relationships than him. *Avoid having a "one track" relationship in which the bond revolves around one thing. Keep your relationship strong by bringing variety and diversity into the relationship. Try different and new things together. Relationship are about having fun together, learning together and growing together. Warnings: Don't conduct "secret tests" on your boyfriend to see what he'll do. It's humiliating, disrespectful and unfair, and you don't want him to do that to you. It's fine to share things with your girlfriends when talking about him, but remember to be respectful of him by not sharing things that are embarrassing, confidential Or rude. You can keep your girlfriends "updated" on stuff, but keep them from getting involved in your relationship (unless abuse Or other dangerous activities are taking place, which are never your fault), in which case tell them everything. *Don't dress sexy all the time. Especially on the first few dates. it comes off as trashy and slutty, and people will think you're a right slag. ....to be continued 
No comments:
Post a Comment