Thursday, January 10, 2008

Relationship Tips~Top 5 ways To Tell You Can Save Your Relationship!!!!

Have you been having so much trouble in your relationship that you wonder that after all the fighting, the drama and mini break-ups has there been too much damage done? Do you wonder how can you tell if your relationship is salvageable? The following are 5 ways to tell if your relationship can truly be recovered Or not: 1) Has Trust Been Violated? In order for a relationship to have a strong foundation there needs to be trust, out of all the possible reasons for a relationship not to be able to survive, it is when trust has been violated. This is because trust is a hard thing to be regained once it has been lost. 2) Is your Partner Willing To Work on Putting The Relationship Back Together? Is your partner willing to work on and be open to putting the relationship back together? After all it takes two to tango. It also takes two in order for a relationship to work, especially when there has been a lot of conflict already experienced in the relationship. 3) Can you and Your Partner Forgive Each Others? If you have hurt each other, can both of you be forgiving? Unforgiveness can lead to anger, resentment and the possibility of one Or both of you emotionally shutting down. For a relationship to work there needs to be a free flow of emotions and both partners need to be emotionally available to each other. 4) Do you Have Anything in Common? At the beginning of a relationship people are in what is called a courtship phase, whether we realize it Or not we act our very best and do whatever we need to do, even if it's not who we truly are in order to impress and keep our partner. The relationship is fresh and there may be a lot of physical attraction in the beginning as well. However, as you get into the relationship, both you and your partners starts to act more and more like your true Or authentic selves, often no longer being what it was that originally attracted both of you to each other anymore. This is when fighting and powerstruggles start because both of you are disappointed and /or because you are both trying to force each other to be like the way both of you used to be. So now at the edge of your relationship falling apart, take a moment and honestly see how much in common you truly have with your partner. The more in common, the better your chances of your relationship being salvageable. 5) Are You Good Communicators? Another major foundation in a relationship is being able to communicate; therefore another reason why a relationship often breaks down is because of lack of communication and miscommunication. So are the two of you good communicators? If not, are both of you open and willing to learn communication skills and techniques? So by taking an honest look at yourself, your partner and your relationship as a whole, you will be able to tell where you are at in your relationship and whether you relationship really is salvageable Or not. If you are interested in finding out more indicators of whether you can save your relationship Or not as well as practical strategies on how to improve your relationship!!! Please think!!! ~~Happy Reading~~


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