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The Three Tiers of Relationship (1.Friendship/2.Love/3.Relationship)
Whether you are single and looking for 'Love', Or double and going through challenges in 'Love', there is can be great advantage in understanding how relationships work, and a foolproof way of dealing with challenges in them. Going through relationship challenges, the key is not to react. Learn to let go. Love really is a non attachment. To love someone Or something is to release it. Let them be themselves. To love a child is to release your expectations of them. To love your partner means unconditional. No matter where they are, no matter what they do, no matter what they did Or didn't do. You love them. This is the truth. In times of challenge, go to the bleachers. Go sit in peace, if you release the bird, and it doesn't return, it wasn't yours. Let Karma play its hand. Don't push and shove? learn to love. You can gain allot of confidence in Karma if you know you have done your best. By following the guidance of Sacred Love book, you know you are not the "cause" and therefore, you can trust Karma. Let the universe do what it must. Lay down your weapons, Trust Karma. If you grab you are interfering. If you reject you are interfering. Hold your space and deal with the emotions as they come up, without reaction Or action. Hold the space of love, trust, that if you stay in this space, then Karma will play its hand. All relationships must be founded on three things. The ground must be solid and built on friendship. If there is friendship, then, the worst outcome of a fall from love is a beautiful place with a person we want to care for and love. So if there is drama, hold your 'lover' as a friend. Offer friendship as an alternative to relationship. If you can't be friends with someone you want to be in a relationship with. then you have been revealed as a phoney. Friendship means to wish for someone's happiness and to do what you can to help them. If you can't be a friend to someone, how can you have a relationship with them? This is the base layer that needs to be real genuine and solid. In other words if you wouldn't be a friend of the person you are in a relationship with (if there was no relationship) then, really your relationship is killing you both. ~~~~to be continued~~~
Whether you are single and looking for 'Love', Or double and going through challenges in 'Love', there is can be great advantage in understanding how relationships work, and a foolproof way of dealing with challenges in them. Going through relationship challenges, the key is not to react. Learn to let go. Love really is a non attachment. To love someone Or something is to release it. Let them be themselves. To love a child is to release your expectations of them. To love your partner means unconditional. No matter where they are, no matter what they do, no matter what they did Or didn't do. You love them. This is the truth. In times of challenge, go to the bleachers. Go sit in peace, if you release the bird, and it doesn't return, it wasn't yours. Let Karma play its hand. Don't push and shove? learn to love. You can gain allot of confidence in Karma if you know you have done your best. By following the guidance of Sacred Love book, you know you are not the "cause" and therefore, you can trust Karma. Let the universe do what it must. Lay down your weapons, Trust Karma. If you grab you are interfering. If you reject you are interfering. Hold your space and deal with the emotions as they come up, without reaction Or action. Hold the space of love, trust, that if you stay in this space, then Karma will play its hand. All relationships must be founded on three things. The ground must be solid and built on friendship. If there is friendship, then, the worst outcome of a fall from love is a beautiful place with a person we want to care for and love. So if there is drama, hold your 'lover' as a friend. Offer friendship as an alternative to relationship. If you can't be friends with someone you want to be in a relationship with. then you have been revealed as a phoney. Friendship means to wish for someone's happiness and to do what you can to help them. If you can't be a friend to someone, how can you have a relationship with them? This is the base layer that needs to be real genuine and solid. In other words if you wouldn't be a friend of the person you are in a relationship with (if there was no relationship) then, really your relationship is killing you both. ~~~~to be continued~~~
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