You think you know... but you have No idea..... L.O.V.E=Lots of Various Emotions. 4

Why would anyone WANT to be in a relationship like that? Hence, the reason that people tell this couple that they will never make it. I don't believe in telling other people what they will Or will not succeed at in their lives..... becaues it is THEIR own life.....not mine..so I have no say in what they are able to commit to and accomplish. But, I can give my advice and my honest opinion of what I think about a situation. And honestly, I know relationships take effort and take work and willingness from both people.... but when you have to ask yourself everyday if you WANT to be in that relationship..... then I think you've answered your question already. If you have to debate whether you think you and someone will work out in the long run..... you prolly won't. Relationships are something you should be sure of.... they're supposed to be fun and filled with laughs and love..... not confusion and tears and debating. This person is supposed to be your best friend and your lover..... not someone you want to beat up. When it comes down to it, you need to ask yourself.... "Am I happy with him/her today?" If your answer is no..... then you need to think about what needs to change (you Or him/her......Or both) in order for you to be able to say Yes to that question. If you're not happy today, then it is a wasted day....and time is one thing we can never get back. I think in this cases,and with many other cases, people tend to force themselves into relationships because they THINK that it will Make them happy. When it comes to dating, the biggest problem humans face is the fact that they create relationships. How can a relationship that is not 100% natural and unforced turn into anything amazing? It won't, because the true way two people interact can Not be changed. The whole world is focused on settling down and having a family. Yet, only a small percentage are successful in keeping it together. We all just need to "be", and forget about ideals.... They don't allow us to evolve and be natural. .............to be continued