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You think you know... but you have No idea... L.O.V.E.=Lots of Various Emotions.7
Sooo, last, but not least, Player#4: A good friend who is dating a guy (one of which I don't particularly care for, but if he makes her happy, then I'm there to support her)..... but she has also been seeing some other guys also..... all the while her main man has No idea that these other guys even exist. OK, honestly, this one Really bothers me. (Probably because I've been in the clueless boat in a relationship like that.... not cool.) There are a few main elements that all come together to make a relationship work.... and one of The most important ones. is Trust. Without trust, you can not have a relationship..... same thing goes for if the trust gets broken..... the relationship will never ever be the same. When you're dating someone.... they are your priority.... they are giving you the chance to drop them on their ass... but trusting you not to. Trust is my biggest issue in relationships..... in my past I have been cheated on and lied to about it..... so naturally...... I have a high wall up inside my heart when it comes to guys now. I get all scared if a guy I'm dating is talking to Or hanging out with another girl... because it's what I've learned to do from experience. It's not good, nor healthy.... I know that, SO, I came up with a new way of approaching trust. Basically, (I told my boyfriend this yesterday) I completely trust you, until you prove to me that I shouldn't. Now, some people may take that and take advantage of it..... and be sneaky behind my back and then just not tell me about it.... but if that is the type of person I am dating.... I need to get rid of him anyways. And I've learned too, that if you have the slightest hunch that your significant other may be cheating on you..... then you're probably right. It's amazing how our minds Or heart just know. I figure, I have to be able to trust the guy I'm dating in order to truly be happy with him.... so that's what I need to LET myself do. Just because I dated one asshole in the past, doesn't make it right for me to hold that over other boyfriends' heads. To each his own. So when it comes down to it.... we all have our own issues when dealing with relationships. Somehow, they all can relate to one another..... and can all be considered "lessons". I love love. I do. I love the whole idea of it existing.... and the possibility of finding it...... maybe a couple times. I always tell people to "Keep your chin up", because you have to be positive when looking at your life and where it's going..... no matter where you have been. Just remember to "live and love and laugh a lot..... cause that's all we need".
Sooo, last, but not least, Player#4: A good friend who is dating a guy (one of which I don't particularly care for, but if he makes her happy, then I'm there to support her)..... but she has also been seeing some other guys also..... all the while her main man has No idea that these other guys even exist. OK, honestly, this one Really bothers me. (Probably because I've been in the clueless boat in a relationship like that.... not cool.) There are a few main elements that all come together to make a relationship work.... and one of The most important ones. is Trust. Without trust, you can not have a relationship..... same thing goes for if the trust gets broken..... the relationship will never ever be the same. When you're dating someone.... they are your priority.... they are giving you the chance to drop them on their ass... but trusting you not to. Trust is my biggest issue in relationships..... in my past I have been cheated on and lied to about it..... so naturally...... I have a high wall up inside my heart when it comes to guys now. I get all scared if a guy I'm dating is talking to Or hanging out with another girl... because it's what I've learned to do from experience. It's not good, nor healthy.... I know that, SO, I came up with a new way of approaching trust. Basically, (I told my boyfriend this yesterday) I completely trust you, until you prove to me that I shouldn't. Now, some people may take that and take advantage of it..... and be sneaky behind my back and then just not tell me about it.... but if that is the type of person I am dating.... I need to get rid of him anyways. And I've learned too, that if you have the slightest hunch that your significant other may be cheating on you..... then you're probably right. It's amazing how our minds Or heart just know. I figure, I have to be able to trust the guy I'm dating in order to truly be happy with him.... so that's what I need to LET myself do. Just because I dated one asshole in the past, doesn't make it right for me to hold that over other boyfriends' heads. To each his own. So when it comes down to it.... we all have our own issues when dealing with relationships. Somehow, they all can relate to one another..... and can all be considered "lessons". I love love. I do. I love the whole idea of it existing.... and the possibility of finding it...... maybe a couple times. I always tell people to "Keep your chin up", because you have to be positive when looking at your life and where it's going..... no matter where you have been. Just remember to "live and love and laugh a lot..... cause that's all we need".
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