The Three Tiers of Relationship~(1.Friendship/ 2.Love/ 3.Relationship.)~Part 2

The second tier, once friendship is established is "Love". This sort of 'love' must be unconditional love. To love means to release and hold at the same time. "Love" is the willingness to let the bird fly and know if it is meant to be yours, it will return. This is the second tier. To know how to hold love for someone even if they don't want relationship with you is the gift of 'Innerwealth'. Love is not a condition that is placed on someone. Unconditional love, the foundation for REAL relationships has no IF, There is no IF. There is no condition for the love that underpins a relationship. "Love" is the foundation from which the emotional and physical and conditional experience of relationship can grow. If you Or your partner cannot understand this concept of unconditional love, then all that is built in relationship is temporary. Love must, in its purest form, be unconditional. The third tier is the "Relationship". A relationship that is bassed on friendship, motivated by love, has no where bad to fall. The worst that can happen is that you might end up holding love for a person you like, but don't have control over them. Relationship is the cream on the cake, the self satisfaction of a dynamic between two humans, Emotional. material, experiential and personal? a wonderful expression of all that underpins it. A relationship with someone is the crown, but it cannot be allowed to exist in the absence of a willingness to be a friend, and to love (therefore release) unconditionally. Relationship can come and go, but the willingness for friendship and love are the truth that lives beneath it. Always know that the worst that can come, if relationship is lost, is that you get to love someone you like, but now, just can't control. To be a good friend, you'll need to have a sense that your dreams, hopes and ampitions are your own. They are portable, adaptable and transferable. If they don't manifest in the company of one person, they will manifest in the company of others. Relationships are not there to cause your dreams to manifest. Relationships are a part of the process. Trust nature in this. learn to adapt to the changing tides of life. Hold your dreams and purpose sacred, allow nature some hand in the dynamics through which they manifest. To know "Love", unconditional love, is to understand the difference between your expectations and your love. People can reject your expectations they cannot reject your love. Hold your love cantered in your heart. Know that you can never stop loving someone you can only put your mind in the way. Practice this as instructed in Innerwealth? The book of love. Relationship must be seen as the bubbles in the Champaign, the icing on the cake, the cream. The crown. Relationships built on friendship and love, are places of celebration. There is a health independence as only friends know. There is a healthy perspective as only unconditional love can produce. There is a willingness to dance and struggle as only the provocation and intimacy of a relationship can create. This is relationship built on friendship, sustained by innerwealth, celebrated in intimacy. Love with spirit. ~~~The End~~