Wednesday, January 16, 2008

You think you know....but you have No idea...., L.O.V.E= Lots of Various Emotions.

About a year ago, I wrote a journal entry about the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of relationships......funny, because at that moment in my life, I was teaching myself how to cope and recover from the hard lesson I had just learned, as to what it feels like for someone you're completely in love with to just simply "fall" out of love with you. It left me wondering what "I" did to make that guy fall out of love with me. Was I really that appalling? Truth is, I wasn't.....and this his falling out of love with me actually had nothing to do with me (A year and 3 months later I'm finally able to realize this.......). I was great the way I was, and he was the one who had changed. (That's what happens, when divorced men force-feed the idea into taken men's heads that it's, in fact, better to be single with no attachments...... oh and when guys decide to sleep with unattractive skanks who have the wisdom of 9 year olds and can't hold a real conversation..... but that's besides the point .........). So where the hell am I going with all of this? Here's the thing.....since a few years ago I've had a Lot of people coming to me for Relationship Advice.... which I find rather funny because I am clearly not an expert on dating..... Or the lack of dating.... but I think it's because I listen and I have been through a Lot when it comes down to it. Most people don't know my stories..... my adventures in dating..... and my surprises and failures when it comes down to the overview of my "love" life. ..................to be continued


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